Sex Starved
There is a lady working with a renowned company. She is well-educated, soft-spoken, beautiful and married to a polio patient. She never allowed gloom to descend over her life on account of this alliance. Her gorgeous appearance seems to wage a fight against destiny. Through her mute dalliances and make-up that's excessive for work she stands out among the entire staff at the office. A guy saw a connection between the sprightliness of this woman and her disadvantaged husband. Day by day he drew closer to her, and found his way to her desolate bed.
What leads to such marriages, is common knowledge. But, how the equation stands after such marriage, is what I was curious about. My friend had answers, which, however, were mixed up in sleaze. The guy enjoys a bash on that bed where the lady lay for years hungering for that touch. She has two kids: a 12 year-old daughter and a 10-year old son. She loves her children as all mothers do, but the mother isn't loved by her husband. Though physically challenged, the husband holds a good position in his company and mostly stays away.
I was excited about such great discovery from my friend. He had been fantasizing such sexual inundation for years. The last we met was with an understanding that this life has no promises for us. A different place, a different time, a different approach would have worked but it was all over now. And, 6 months later I hear that tables have turned over: a lady, middle-aged and sex-starved, desired my friend.
She asks for nothing but sex, sex and sex. This may repulse some of you. It excited me, but now it is a question to my moral intelligence and I do not wish to grapple with it alone. My readers will help me arrive at a conclusion.
A mother of two had conferred motherhood on herself through her own efforts: She had to get her husband to make love to her. It was carried out only twice. The result was two kids and accumulating dissatisfaction.
Forget the pleasures of coition, the lady couldn't even enjoy the clinging comfort of her man. She sought a wholesomeness of spirit that characterises man and was ready to overlook a failed limb. But, he chose to sleep alone. Love needs a peg to hang on, a touch to sustain its flame. The loneliness became obnoxious. The aching bed emanated doom and gloom for the couple.
She always feared being driven to the fate of a nymphomaniac. She watched porn to get over her frustration before she realised that this wouldn't be a life-long cure for her bodily demands. Sin with all its horrors didn't discourage this woman from what she strongly desired - a man.
She could have left her husband, but she did not because she loves him too. Why does glory reach for woman even in disgrace and evoke respect from us?
I have heard many stories of this genre but never did I feel for the woman of the story so strongly. This story surpasses my moral judgement. What do you say?
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What leads to such marriages, is common knowledge. But, how the equation stands after such marriage, is what I was curious about. My friend had answers, which, however, were mixed up in sleaze. The guy enjoys a bash on that bed where the lady lay for years hungering for that touch. She has two kids: a 12 year-old daughter and a 10-year old son. She loves her children as all mothers do, but the mother isn't loved by her husband. Though physically challenged, the husband holds a good position in his company and mostly stays away.
I was excited about such great discovery from my friend. He had been fantasizing such sexual inundation for years. The last we met was with an understanding that this life has no promises for us. A different place, a different time, a different approach would have worked but it was all over now. And, 6 months later I hear that tables have turned over: a lady, middle-aged and sex-starved, desired my friend.
She asks for nothing but sex, sex and sex. This may repulse some of you. It excited me, but now it is a question to my moral intelligence and I do not wish to grapple with it alone. My readers will help me arrive at a conclusion.
A mother of two had conferred motherhood on herself through her own efforts: She had to get her husband to make love to her. It was carried out only twice. The result was two kids and accumulating dissatisfaction.
Forget the pleasures of coition, the lady couldn't even enjoy the clinging comfort of her man. She sought a wholesomeness of spirit that characterises man and was ready to overlook a failed limb. But, he chose to sleep alone. Love needs a peg to hang on, a touch to sustain its flame. The loneliness became obnoxious. The aching bed emanated doom and gloom for the couple.
She always feared being driven to the fate of a nymphomaniac. She watched porn to get over her frustration before she realised that this wouldn't be a life-long cure for her bodily demands. Sin with all its horrors didn't discourage this woman from what she strongly desired - a man.
She could have left her husband, but she did not because she loves him too. Why does glory reach for woman even in disgrace and evoke respect from us?
I have heard many stories of this genre but never did I feel for the woman of the story so strongly. This story surpasses my moral judgement. What do you say?
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Comments
We know that many wrong activities happen and we hope that those shouldn't happen. e.g. Murders, robberies etc. And we never support these activities. In a Murder, one goes to an extent of killing other. In the example given by writer of this post, nobody is going to kill anybody, literally, however somebody will kill some good rules, behaviors and laws for the peace of society. If, in literal terms, no killing is taking place, does that mean any sin can be supported? I believe no. Otherwise everybody will be a robber or kidnapper or drug seller.
I always remember following quote:
"There are always 3 sides to any situation : Your, Mine and the RIGHT side."
Do your best to choose the right side.
Fellow readers think about the other way also.What if, the lady was patient and guy being normal?
Using some facts from the story[middle-aged woman], I am assuming the marriage took place around in 80s or so. During those days, girls didn't have much say in marriage issues and generally, parents used to decide everything for them. It was more bonding of two families rather than two souls.
I think whatever she is doing is right in a way. Before pointing finger on her, one has to see what she has gone through. Its commendable that she is still there for her children and family.
i will continue this later.... got to go...
I just feel its the guy who is responsible for all this. He was aware of everything..how the life has been for him (emotionally, physically and social aspect also).
I don't see any wrong in what the lady has been doing. She is a normal human being. What about her emotions, feelings and desires?
Whatever has happened can't be changed ... however, one can act to make future pleasant.